Laurence Boldt

To Be Human

Ultimately, the discovery of a life's work begins with the realization of what it means to be a human being--embracing what binds us all together and appreciating what makes each of us unique. As long as we deny that we are social beings and ignore the needs of the world, we miss the sense that our work is meaningful. We feel cut off, lonely and alienated. As long as we deny our individuality and fail to develop and express our unique talents and gifts, we miss the joy of creative self-expression. We feel frustrated, repressed and trapped.

Simply put: To the extent that your work takes into account the needs of the world, it will be meaningful; to the extent that through it you express your unique talents, it will be joyful.

Rebelling or Creating

The truth is, until we have taken the time to discover and affirm who we really are and what we really want, we are left with only negative identities and negative passion. We define ourselves by what we are against, and so have negative, not creative, passion. We need something to rebel against or we don't feel like we exist. We need someone to rebel against or we don't feel passionate about anything.... We are comfortable with rebelling, but fearful of creating.

Love Gives Us the Courage

Love gives us the courage to believe in humanity and in ourselves. The word courage means, literally, "with heart." It takes great heart--great courage--to believe in humanity in the face of what sometimes seem like overwhelming problems.

It takes courage to affirm that the possible world that many of us have experienced in glimpses, moments of imagination or spiritual insight, is more than an idle fantasy. It takes the courage to say, like Martin Luther King, Jr., "I have a dream"--to affirm against all evidence to the contrary that one day, we shall overcome our fear, doubt, hatred, violence and pettiness.

It takes courage to commit yourself to building bridges between the world that could be and the world that is--the courage to say that you believe the world will one day be a better place and that today you are ready to do your part to make it so.

Finding the Right Work

The rat race. The fast track. The old grind. The same ol' same ol'--whatever you call it, a lot of people are looking for a way out. Many today have a sense that their lives are not their own, that they have few choices and little power over their own destinies. They sense their lives getting away from them, moving at a frantic pace they feel powerless to control. They feel trapped in the rat race--forcing themselves, day after day, to do work they find neither meaningful nor fulfilling.

We have been told that the rat race is the road to success. Yet many today have an idea of success different from those of previous generations. For these people, success is not defined exclusively in economic terms but includes the opportunity to express their innate talents and abilities, to be creatively engaged (not simply to show up), to feel as though they are making a meaningful difference, and to integrate their spiritual values with the everyday business of working and making a living. Moreover, today there is a growing realization that an unhappy experience at work has profound psychological and social costs....

A growing number of people are expecting to find a place for their heart and soul in their work, a place to express their unique talents and abilities. They want a greater sense of joy and meaning in their work. While growing rapidly, this group is, to be sure, still a minority of workers. Yet all great social movements begin with minorities, courageous pioneers who blaze trails that the less adventurous are later able to tread....

The redefinition of work will be one of the great tests of human creativity in the 21st century. It has been estimated that 75 percent of all jobs involve the kind of repetitive functions that can be replaced by computers or machines. In the economically developed nations, new technologies and the exportation of jobs to the "developing nations" have meant the elimination of millions of jobs. In the Third World, the introduction of large-scale farming has pushed and will likely continue to push billions into the cities, where there are too few jobs and inadequate infrastructure and housing to absorb them humanely.

Unless we are to face global unemployment on a truly horrific scale or the prospect of a virtual slave class of low-paid workers, new kinds of work must be created. This new work will not be created by the government, but neither will it come from the private sector, if we mean by that the massive global corporations. It will be created, if at all, by individuals. It will be born of their inspirations, compassion and natural talents. The problem is not so much one of "putting people to work" as it is of empowering them to work--unleashing and not repressing their innate creative powers.

Laurence Boldt is a writer and career consultant.

 

Learn to Play

Learn again how to play. One in touch with the vitality of the inner child throws himself into life. He is free to move spontaneously from intuition. His actions are neither dependent on the validation of others nor blocked by his own self-censure. No longer a mere observer or spectator, he actively participates in his life. This childlike spirit of engagement is the road to life's work. As Thomas Merton said, "A man knows he has found his vocation when he stops thinking about how to live and begins to live."

Imagine a World

In your childhood, you could dream. Return. Let yourself return and simply imagine a world that works for everyone, a world of peace and justice, or freedom and brotherhood. Imagine a world where a child's desire to give is met not with indifference, doubt or scorn but with praise, encouragement and direction. Imagine a world where right is more important than might ... a world where leaders become so because of their courage, integrity and compassion ... a world of beauty, where love is freely expressed and everyone works to give their best. Can you imagine it?

Your Childlike Nature

The creative individual is one who has successfully integrated the playful inner child with the capable, responsible adult. She is in touch with her childlike nature. One of the great keys to discovering the work you love is to ask the simple question, 'What did I want to give to the world when I was young and fresh, innocent and filled with wonder?' Some of you will be able to recall right away. Others will first have to peel away the layers of hurt and defense that block your remembrance.

When you were a child, you saw things simply. Your world was full of magic, wonder and promise. The possibilities seemed limitless. You wanted to give your love and live in beauty, joy and simplicity. You felt you could do or be anything.